The young man raised 300,000 donations to cut the liver to save the mother, and all of them were returned because they could not be operated.
Zhang Xiaoshi accompanied his seriously ill mother.
The mother of Zhang Xiaoshi, a young man in Jinzhai County, suffered from severe liver cirrhosis. He took the initiative to donate his liver to save his mother, and raised more than 300,000 yuan to prepare for surgery in just 15 days through the "Easy Financing" WeChat platform. Unexpectedly, his mother’s condition deteriorated sharply and he could not operate. The reporter contacted "Easy Raising" and learned that as of yesterday, Zhang Xiaoshi had returned all the donations raised in place to all donors in full. Zhang Mu passed away yesterday morning, but Zhang Xiaoshi’s filial piety and character have been praised by many people.
He insisted on donating his liver to save his mother.
Zhang Xiaoshi is a native of Yinshanfan, Jinzhai County. In 2007, his father suffered from nasopharyngeal carcinoma, and his condition was controlled, but he owed a large amount of foreign debt. My mother was diagnosed with decompensated cirrhosis in 2011. Since 2014, she has been hospitalized for seven times, and the cost of each time is 70,000 to 80,000, which makes the poor family worse.
At the beginning of this month, my mother was transferred to Wuxi for rescue. The doctor said that the only way was liver transplantation. Zhang Xiaoshi and his younger brother found a doctor and asked for matching and donating liver to save her mother. The doctor said that in principle, living donor liver is not supported, because living donor liver has a great impact on the donor’s health. Moreover, in the case of his mother, the success rate of liver transplantation is less than 50%, so try to find a ready-made liver source. But it was hard to find the liver source. I’m afraid I found it, and my mother’s illness can’t wait. Zhang Xiaoshi insisted on donating the liver and finally succeeded in matching.
Next, a bigger problem is in front of us. The hundreds of thousands of yuan of operation expenses required for liver transplantation have become a stumbling block, and the whole family is in a hurry.
Gather everyone’s efforts to raise more than 300 thousand donations
God never shuts one door but he opens another. A month ago, a patient in my mother’s ward said that we could try to ask for help from the society through the WeChat platform. After learning this information, Zhang Xiaoshi published their experiences and difficulties through the WeChat platform. Qu Song, the person in charge of the website of "Jinzhai Forum", said that he also received this WeChat and immediately forwarded it to his circle of friends. After verification, he posted this help information on the website, which attracted many people at one time. The circle of friends forwarded each other. In just 15 days, more than 300,000 yuan of love money was raised through the WeChat platform. When many caring people transferred money through WeChat, they also attached messages to encourage them to be strong.
Return the donation in full with honesty.
Although 300,000 yuan is not enough to fully pay for the operation, at least the operation can be done. If it is insufficient, it can be raised by crowdfunding or borrowed from relatives and friends. Zhang Xiaoshi thought this way, but his mother’s condition suddenly deteriorated sharply. On March 24, my mother was admitted to Zhejiang Medical University. At 17: 00 that day, she suddenly suffered from massive hemorrhage in the digestive tract, and the whole person was in a coma. The doctor said that this situation was no longer suitable for liver transplantation. "The purpose of my crowdfunding help is to perform surgery on my mother, but now I can’t use it." Zhang Xiaoshi said that after consulting with his family that night, he decided to return all the donations of 300,000 yuan to the platform, and attached a thank-you letter.
Zhang Xiaoshi took his mother back to her hometown in Jinzhai according to the doctor’s advice. On the evening of March 29th, Zhang Xiaoshi’s mother spent the last night in her home. "I slept with my mother last night. At 8 o’clock in the morning of March 30th, my mother left us forever!" Speaking of which, Zhang Xiaoshi choked several times.
-Dialogue with Zhang Xiaoshi
If you can’t do the operation, you have to return the money to others. Be honest.
Reporter: Have you considered your health when you decided to donate your liver to save your mother?
Zhang Xiaoshi: Although the doctor said it was very harmful to the donor, the kindness of raising is as deep as the sea, and it is nothing to pay for saving the mother.
Reporter: Is the 300,000 love money raised really useless?
Zhang Xiaoshi: I have owed hundreds of thousands of debts for treating my mother in the early stage. This money can be used to pay off debts even without surgery, but I made it clear on the crowdfunding platform that it is to raise the cost of surgery. Now that surgery can’t be done, I have to return it to others and be honest.
Reporter: According to common sense, if you don’t refund the money, the donors won’t say anything. After all, you are facing great difficulties.
Zhang Xiaoshi: Yes, but 300,000 love money was donated by many people together. If I refund a sum less, I will owe others more, and I will feel uneasy.